On Thursday, I signed up to participate in the ‘Brave the Shave‘ fundraiser for Macmillan Cancer Support with a goal of raising a very modest £150. The point of the campaign is to stand with cancer patients who have to shave their heads because of treatment. When I saw the ad for ‘Brave The Shave’, it really struck a chord with me.
When I was 20, my mother was diagnosed with leukaemia and given 2 weeks to live. She beat the odds and is still with us 17 years later. I am so very grateful to the doctors, nurses, scientists; everyone who contributes to the treatment of those who have to go through cancer but I also know that the effects of cancer reach beyond medical treatment. Cancer patients – current and past – need emotional support, legal support, specialist nurses, work related advice, an advocate. Here in the UK, Macmillan specialises in this but they receive no government funding. With 2 in 3 people being effected by cancer either with a personal diagnosis or a family member being diagnosed, Macmillan are a vital part of treatment.
I set my goal low to avoid a renewed bout of depression if the goal wasn’t reached. I know that charity isn’t about the self but I also know my triggers and I can’t put my family through the bad feelings when I can avoid it.
The goal was reached on the day and continues to grow. Thank you to all the donators! And though I set my shave date for the 8th, reaching the goal made me impatient.
Guess what I did on Saturday.
And I love it! As much as I loved brushing my hair, colouring it etc etc, I think I love this fuzziness even more.
I still have the hair though. I divided it up and put it in elastic bands to make cutting it off easier but I haven’t decided if I will just throw it away or spin it into yarn. The Victorians made an industry out of turning hair into keepsakes – making doll hair, keeping it in lockets, making jewellry, embroidery – and human hair is actually quite similar to some types of sheeps wool (google ‘Wensleydale locks’).
If you are able to, donations would be greatly appreciated. Even if you choose another charity, if you are able to, please give something if you can.